타이거 우드의 Affair에 대해 끝도없이 쏟아지는 댓글들이 읽어 볼수록 머리는 더 복잡해지고, 결론을 찾기 보다는 더 깊은 labyrinth로 빠져 들어가는 것 같다. 우둔한 나의 생각으로는 닭이 먼저냐? 달걀이 먼저냐?로 이번 Affair를 놓고 갑론을박 하는 네티즌들의 발상이 기발하게만 느껴질 뿐이다. 여기에 그일부를 옮겨 본다. 이글을 읽어보는 분들도 흥미를 느끼는 반면, 그 반대편도 보시기를...... Tiger Woods forum Discussions 1234 Keep Reading General–I have walked in those Shoes To: All Dec-9 6845.1 From: DrKirk Posts: 8 Hello Tiger, I have always wanted to email you and tell you how much I admire you as a person. I am still in your camp as I am an african-american male, married to a European Woman (German), who has also gone down the path of temptation. Oh yes, I understand. However, what I would like to say to you is do not pay any attention to all the outside nonsense...because that is what it is. If Elin is the one you want and she still wants you, you can make a tremendous comback. It will require some soul searching on your part and a realization that you will have to involve her in everything that is YOU (everything). I have been married for 28 years and yes I have had my own issues (similar to yours) and I was man enough to put my life an my family back together again. Marriage is a partnership and it is not easy to keep one intact these days. Please do not take the easy way out and start over again. Elin will stay with you...you just have to win back her trust. That is something hard to do and I struggle with it to this day. I believe you are man enough to do this. I am looking forward to you playing in 2010 and seeing Elin and your children by your side. Family is everything and the only thing you need. Please remember that. I wish you both the very best in your continuing struggles with a media, out of control, and I pray that you will both have the wisdom to compromise and reaffirm the union you began. You are absolutely right for staying silent and you are without a doubt right that it is a private matter. Stay the course, you are tigglo-carbon (from The Empire Strikes Back), continue to insulate yourself. I hope this email reaches you and that you at least consider the primary message I have, "Family first, last, and always". For a little levity, I leave you with this..."A dog never poops were he eats...". Just a thought. Mike Kirkley OptionsReply To: DrKirk Dec-9 6845.2Reply to 6845.1 From: BlindAngel Posts: 2 Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OptionsReply To: DrKirk Dec-9 6845.3Reply to 6845.1 From: SCEllis Posts: 7 Well said and definitely worth reading! Good for you and your family that you were able to go on and make it work. I do hope and pray that Tiger and Elin will do the same! To grow and learn from this and put it behind them as they move ahead to a stronger marriage. OptionsReply To: DrKirk Dec-9 6845.4Reply to 6845.1 From: sennna Posts: 9 But down and down and down and down and down and down and down and down and down and down and down? (that's 11 times). There's such a thing as temptation, and then there's shamelessness. And this fugga is a shameless pig. OptionsReply To: sennna Dec-9 6845.5Reply to 6845.4 From: DrKirk Posts: 8 Sennna, I typical female response. I can appreciate your sentiment. But as my wife always says to me...it takes two to tango. As a woman, I ask you...if there was a guy and you wanted him, and you had all the attributes that would make him want you, don't you think you will tempt him? Even if he is married? This is where we are today. That is the reality. Again, as I siad, it is none of our business. I have my own problems and I am quite sure that you have yours. Lets focus on our own issues and leave him to deal with his. Mike Kirkely OptionsReply To: DrKirk Dec-9 6845.6Reply to 6845.5 From: sennna Posts: 9 DrKirk...respectfully, there are probably about 1,999,998 ladies (and more than a few men, I'm sure!) who would sleep with Tiger at the drop of a hat. When does it become this mans responsibility to keep himself in check? OptionsReply To: DrKirk Dec-9 6845.7Reply to 6845.1 From: jeener Posts: 17 AMEN!!!!!! again...it's worth MANY AMENS!! OptionsReply To: sennna Dec-9 6845.8Reply to 6845.6 From: UpNorth1 Posts: 20 Sennna, YES!!! "When does it become this mans responsibility to keep himself in check?" EXACTLY!!! This guy has more security then the President, so why didn't he "JUST SAY NO" !!! One word from his security and they ALL would have been history!!! One word from him, and they never would have been there to begin with!! Problem is, most of these Tiger Defenders just don't want to see that. OptionsReply To: UpNorth1 Dec-9 6845.9Reply to 6845.8 From: DrKirk Posts: 8 Senna and UpNorth1, And what business is that of yours? Did he defame, embaress or hurt you in any way? I do not think so. Is there anyone here without sin who can cast the first stone. What about the women who want to throw everything they can at him. As brother Steve Harvey would tell you...We men are very simple creatures. That is the fact, and every woman who has been around the block a time or two...knows this. Stop being hipocritical and get off your soap box. I ask you this...where was all this concern when that guy in Cleveland was murdering women and storing them in his house? As a society...we have lost our persepctive. DrKirk OptionsReply To: DrKirk Dec-9 6845.10Reply to 6845.1 From: PaulaMc Posts: 3 well said. God Bless. OptionsReply